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| Job
Hunting Errors to Avoid from
The Career Advisor | | Rejection
is a killer. No matter how many times you tell yourself it's not going to hurt,
it does. Turndowns take many forms, but in the job-hunter's mind they all say
this: "WE
DON'T WANT YOU. YOU'RE NO GOOD!"
Here are common mistakes job-hunters make and ways to avoid them:
| | | | 1. | Your
goals are unclear
You haven't examined yourself carefully. You're drifting, floating, and your resume
says, "Seeking a challenging and rewarding position in which my background, training
and abilities can be fully and effectively utilized." What is that? Are you hoping
the employer will figure out where you belong? They can't and won't. You must
figure out what you want to do and tell employers clearly and precisely.
| | | | 2. | You're
pretending
You're getting rejection everywhere you go. Nothing works. Perhaps you're trying
to go somewhere you really don't belong or don't want to go. You know it, and
employers know it instinctively. You're not listening to your insides. You're
trying to do what's "practical or realistic" rather than what's right for you.
When you listen to your intuition and go in the right direction, doors open.
| | | | 3. | You
don't "appeal" to anyone
Your resume tells the employer what you "have done" and where you "have been,"
but that's not enough. They are interested in themselves, and you need to appeal
to their situation and self-interest.
Recently, I noticed billboards for fast-food restaurants that said, "Buses Welcome."
(Buses were welcome because each bus holds 60 customers!) The sign "Buses Welcome"
repeated until finally one sign really grabbed me. It said, "BUS DRIVERS EAT FREE!"
Give employers
75 reasons to hire you. Make a list. Tell them in clear and simple language what
you're going to do for them. | | |
| 4. | You're
taking, not giving
You're coming across as a taker, not a giver. You're acting needy, explaining
when you can't work and what you can't do. The biggest word in job-hunting is
"Help," that's why it's called "Help Wanted," and you need to come across as energetic
and enthusiastic. Your prospective boss may be tired, stressed and buried under
a mountain of paperwork. They probably need help badly, and they will hire the
person they think will help them the most, the fastest, with the least amount
of hassle. The second they think you're helping them, you're on the way to being
hired. | | | | 5. | You
take "no" too easily
You make a phone call or send a letter and no one answers. So you turn on the
tape that says, "I'm Worthless." Don't give up. "No" doesn't mean "never." It
means "not now, maybe later." If the job, the company, or the person interests
you, stay in touch.
Once you find someone you like, make them a friend. Send him an occasional letter
and something helpful. A clipping. An idea. A piece of your work. Send it with
warmth and enthusiasm. Why do this? Because one day your friend may tell you a
new job has opened up--your job. | | |
| 6. | You're
"shopping" from a distance
Rejection letters are coming in by the hundreds. What's wrong? Perhaps you're
too impersonal, too distant. The Director of Marketing doesn't like a letter addressed
to "Director of Marketing." Would you like a love letter addressed to "Occupant?"
Get personal. Find out who you are addressing.
A recent letter to me said, "Your article has directed and stimulated me and I'm
following your directions." AHA! She was talking about my favorite subject: me.
Your prospective employer might like you to talk about his or her favorite subject
too. | | | | 7. | You're
waiting
The interview was fantastic! You can feel it in your bones - you've got the job.
Might as well go play tennis and wait. And wait and wait and wait. Until suddenly
the bad news, "We've hired someone else." As salesmen say, you don't have the
order (the job) until you have a check "in the hand" and then, not until you have
cashed it. Then you have a job (temporarily). The solution is to stay busy. Keep
a lot of balls in the air so that no one "rejection" will stop you. |
| | | 8. | You
lack support
There are several kinds of people in the world. Positive people tend to know positive
people, negative people seem to know negative people. Be sure you stay in a positive
network. When someone is especially warm or kind, ask if they know any other really
friendly people who might help. Chances are, they will. When you meet a negative
or rejecting person, go somewhere else. | |
| | 9. | You've
found a jerk
Sometimes you do everything right and still get rejected. A client recently wrote
a letter that said, "Jim Taylor's my name.Transportation's my game." The hiring
executive wrote back, "We find your introduction somewhat interesting in that
you say, 'Transportation is your game.' Transportation is not a game to us - it
is serious business. Your brief rundown of experience indicate specialization
in areas where we are adequately staffed with competent professionals."
This seems cold and unfeeling.
What can Jim do? "Judo" the rejection! For example, he could write back, "Thank
you for your letter of. Yes, you do seem to take your work seriously--perhaps
too seriously! I'm sending along a couple of transportation cartoons to help lighten
your mood (include them). I do take my work seriously. Here are examples (include
them). You will find me a very helpful employee as so-and-so did (include a one-line
testimonial). Thank you for your attention. Let's talk again."
Take your power and use it. Don't let others have the last word. Often you can
have the last work if you apply a little creativity. | |
| | 10. | You're
rejecting yourself
You're telling yourself all the things you can't do, itemizing your failures.
Why not make a list of "Neat Things About Me"--and don't be modest. Or keep a
"win file." If someone says something nice about you, ask them to write it down.
They most surely will. | | |
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Finally, remember how very special you are. Know that your background--everything
you've done, both positive and negative--has a reason and purpose. It all fits
together like a puzzle--and makes sense--if assembled properly.
Zig Ziglar said: "Most people.refuse to go out on a limb because they don't understand
that the fruit is always out on the limb." Go out on the limb, even if it occasionally
means risking rejection. To do a good a job search, please bear in mind
that: - Job-hunting requires persistence and constant efforts, qualities
which we find difficult to have.
- Job expectations should be realistic enough
so that chances of meeting them are relatively high.
- Job seekers should have
a positive attitude about themselves, the society and the country.
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| Myths
and Realities in Job Search written
by Ngeow Yoke Meng
Conducting an effective
job search requires a clear understanding of the job market and the know how to
use some of the skills and techniques. Here are some myths and misconceptions
concerning the effective methods for achieving success, followed by corresponding
realities. Myth 1: Anyone can find a job in today's low unemployment
job market. Reality: The job markets of many countries have been
the employees' market for the recent years. However, it does not follow that anyone
who possesses intelligence and concrete work skills can effortlessly find a good
job. Having positive attitudes and self-esteem, abilities of setting goals and
solving problems, skills of interpersonal communications may help in succeeding
job search. But more importantly, he must know where to find a job a post-industrial
and high-tech society. The visible job market in which vacancies are advertised
in media channels is highly fragmented and chaotic. On the other hand, the hidden
job market in which vacancies are not advertised but passing through word-of-mouth,
is still unknown to most job seekers. Myth 2: Employers hire the
best qualified candidates. Inexperienced job seekers do not stand a good chance
in the competitive job market. Reality: Employers seldom hire the
best qualified candidates because "qualifications" are difficult to
define and measure in any job interview. Personal traits and other virtuous aspects
of an individual such as being purposeful, persistent, pleasant, competent, intelligent,
honest, independent, confident and well-mannered, can possibly be measured in
a job interview. Employers want value for their money and do not hire people
for no reason. Being an inexperienced applicant, do not emphasize your own demands
and never volunteer your weaknesses by saying "I'm sorry I don't have such
experience..." On the contrary, you should define employer's goals or needs
as your skills and strengths, and you might end up in the driver's seat.
Myth 3: Job seekers should not try to use contacts or connections to get
a job. Reality: Employers hire people who can contribute more than
they worth. Employers care less whether applicants make use of contacts or have
connections with whom they know. Moreover, if an applicant is strongly recommended
by someone the employer knows and trusts, his chances of getting a job is higher
than one without. Standing in line for a job often reduces possibilities of being
selected, or even being noticed. If for one reason or another job seekers prefer
to apply through front door like everyone else when he can use personal contacts,
it is because they just want to test their luck. They are probably not serious
enough in getting a job. | Reminders
about Job Seeker Privacy Here are some friendly tips and
reminders to protect your privacy when applying for jobs. Read below:
Job seeker privacy is important to DEVJOBS. We offer the following tips for you
to keep in mind when dealing with prospective employers:
Use your best judgment
when sharing your information with prospective employers over the phone or the
Internet. * You can share work history, experience, education and salary requirements.
Do not share non-work related personal information, such as your social security
number, marital status, eye color, etc.
Do not share credit card or bank numbers, Social Security numbers, or engage in
any monetary transactions.
Be suspicious of employers who ask for money to cover application fees, hiring
fees, placement, etc.
Be careful about work-at-home promoters because some of them are fake and only
want to fool you by selling non-existent software. [There were previous incidents
when fake employers announce jobs through DEVJOBS, and they ask applicants to
pay a certain application or software fees. Some of these are promoters of so-called
"work-at-home" schemes. Please be specially careful about this kind of con artists.
Avoid them at all costs. Currently, DEVJOBS do not anymore allow "work-at-home"
job ads. ]
Be cautious when dealing with contacts outside of your own country. If you feel
uncomfortable about a request for your information, find out why the employer
needs that information. If you still feel uncomfortable - do not share it.
These are just friendly reminders from DEVJOBS. |
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