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101 Excuses for Not Getting A Job.From The Career Advisor

This is a true story. I've spent more than 20,000 hours as a consultant in one-on-one career counseling sessions. The reason I know this is that I added the time on my fancy odometer-calculator:

Most sessions are fun, exciting, and productive--really wonderful! But, like any counselor, I've had clients who sink in quicksand, and don't want to get themselves out. These are the whiners, negative thinkers, tantrum-throwers, and excuse-makers--like this little fella here:
They see the glass as half empty, they "yes, but" every suggestion, and they believe Paul Harvey's humorous dictum, "There's no sense worrying, nothing's going to turn out alright."

I listened to die-hard pessimists for ten years until I got sick and tired of hearing why things couldn't be done. I listed the excuses on paper to clear my mind, writing as fast
as I could, barely keeping up with my racing thoughts.

Years of whining and complaining poured out onto the page--my hand cramped--and this entertaining list is the result.

Now, when clients fall into a prolonged excuse mode--when they continually miss meetings, ignore assignments, or fail to take any action whatsoever on their own behalf--I show them this list.

As we laugh together--they do laugh, because it's funny--a lightbulb comes on.

(Or else lightning strikes.) They realize they've used many of these same lines to justify their own procrastination, inactivity, and outright irresponsibility. They realize they've fallen into a "yes, but" mentality--or something worse--and this often helps them think differently and get going. We hit the bullseye, so to speak.

They say, for example, "Yeah, I see I've been using a lot of these same crummy excuses to avoid getting out and meeting people"--or something to that effect. And after that, excuses dwindle sharply and real progress begins.

As you'll see below, money--or lack of it--is a common theme
in the Excuse Manufacturing Business.

Time, or lack of same, is another common raw material
in cooking up handy, believable excuses.

It's fun to blame time, because it can't fight back. Time and Money are two big factors in excuse-making. No surprises there.

Here's the famous list, below. It's not complete, by any means, but it's a good start toward stagnation, procrastination, irresponsibility, and all-out failure. Take it for what it's worth, pass it around, and add any handy excuses we've missed.


	1.		I'm too old (or, too young) to find work.
	2.		I don't have enough money.
	3.		I don't speak enough English/Spanish/Russian/Navajo for them to hire me.
	4.		I fail at everything I try. Why bother?
	5.		I don't have a car/a phone/a fax/a pager/a computer/an alarm clock.
	6.		I'm too shy.
	7.		I don't know where to start.
	8.		I don't have a degree (or, the proper education).
	9.		It's impossible. I've tried before.
	10.		No one would want me (or, my skills).
	11.		It's too late in the day (or, the season, or the year, or in my life) to find a job now.
	12.		It would take too much effort.
	13.		I don't have the time.
	14.		I'm engaged to be married; once I'm married my problems will all be solved.
	15.		I'm not strong enough.
	16.		It might ruin my health.
	17.		I can't take rejection.
	18.		I'm registered with a temp service (or, employment agency, or union, or major employer) and they haven't called me yet.
	19.		I've applied already, and they turned me down.
	20.		There's too much competition for jobs.
	21.		I don't know how to look for work.
	22.		There's no point in starting a job search.
	23.		I'd lose my shirt. I'd lose my kids medicaid, and what happens if they get sick and need to see a doctor.
	24.		I don't have any work clothes (or, I don't have any good clothes, or steel-toed shoes, or dress shoes, or a hard hat, or necktie).
	25.		I don't have any family here (or, where the jobs are located).
	26.		The economy is terrible here (or, the housing situation is terrible here, or where the jobs are located).
	27.		I already sold all my tools.
	28.		I'm pregnant (or, trying to get pregnant).
	29.		It would spoil my vacation.
	30.		The timing isn't right.
	31.		I'm waiting until the kids get out of school (or, back in school, or until they graduate from school).
	32.		I can't sell.
	33.		They don't offer enough benefits.
	34.		I need more of a challenge (or, it's too much of a challenge).
	35.		I'm not a morning person.
	36.		I worked and paid taxes for two (or, five or ten) years, and it's high time for me to relax and get the benefit of what I've paid in.
	37.		This is the wrong time of my life.
	38.		It would mean starting over.
	39.		I might fail.
	40.		I don't have the energy.
	41.		I don't drive on the freeway/at night/in that neighborhood/ in ice and snow/ on narrow roads/out of my part of town.
	42.		I don't have any auto insurance.
	43.		I'm not into the eight-to-five scene.
	44.		I'm barely making it now, and I can't afford to waste time and gasoline searching for a job all over town.
	45.		I'm too fat (or, thin).
	46.		I'm a rock musician (or, poet, or writer, or painter). I haven't got any gigs yet, but I have to be free when they call.
	47.		A new necktie (or, magazine subscription, or briefcase, or mailings) would cost too much.
	48.		I'm not feeling well.
	49.		I'm planning to go back to school some time in the future, so I can't work.
	50.		I don't want to think about my problems right now.
	51.		The weather is too hot (or, too cold).
	52.		It doesn't pay to work in this town.
	53.		There's nothing within walking distance of my house.
	54.		It won't work.
	55.		Anybody could do that job; I want something challenging.
	56.		It's too much of a challenge.
	57.		I don't want them to make me cut my hair, or tie it up.
	58.		My husband wouldn't let me. My wife wouldn't let me.
	59.		Public transportation doesn't run that early/that late/that far/that reliably.
	60.		I can't find any free day care.
	61.		I can't stand the smell of plastic (or, bus exhaust, or flowers, or machine oil, or food, or people).
	62.		This town's too small (or, too big) to find a job.
	63.		There's no jobs out there. (sic)
	64.		If I word around food, I'll start eating, and there will be no stopping me.
	65.		The boss will start talking some trash, and I'll lose my temper and get fired again, so why bother?
	66.		I just arrived in town, and you want me to start looking for a job already?
	67.		I just got married/got divorced/broke up with my lover.
	68.		They're not hiring.
	69.		I'm a woman (or, I'm a man, I'm an Anglo, I'm a minority . etc.)
	70.		It's raining (or, sleeting, snowing, blowing) outside.
	71.		I can't stand (or, sit, or walk, or lay down) for long periods of time. And I don't like talking on the phone, using computers, or meeting people or cats . , etc., etc., etc.
	72.		I'm not in the mood.
	73.		I had surgery last year.
	74.		I have a headache/backache/neckache.
	75.		The tires on my car are bald.
	76.		.I'm not strong enough.
	77.		I'm not gonna drive sixteen miles, morning and evening, through freeway traffic, for a lousy $5.15/hour (or, $16.50/hour, or $32.50/hour, or $50,000/year).
	78.		I'm worth more than they could afford to pay me.
	79.		It's been tried before.
	80.		They say I'm overqualified.
	81.		I've got 12 weeks of unemployment benefits left, and if I don't use them I lose them.
	82.		It would be too hard to start.
	83.		I'm not about to lower myself to take the kinds of jobs they're offering.
	84.		I couldn't do it alone.
	85.		They always want a drug test, and I'm not going to give them the satisfaction.
	86.		All they have are dead-end jobs, with no hope for quick advancement to upper management.
	87.		My kids are never going to get dumped into day care if I have anything to say about it.
	88.		I've got a "thing" about traveling on public buses.
	89.		If I work, my ex will garnish my wages for child support, and I'll just have to quit and start over again.
	90.		I don't work at any job that isn't fun. When it stops being fun, I leave.
	91.		I don't use public restrooms.
	92.		It would take too long.
	93.		I don't look for work outside my field.
	94.		I'm not a risk taker. It's too risky.
	95.		It can't be done.
	96.		It's summer vacation! (or, the Holidays, or Spring Break, or the championship playoff season.)
	97.		It's too damn far.
	98.		If they don't like the way I dress, screw 'em.
	99.		It's not practical. I've got to be realistic.
	100.		I don't want to drive two hours for a one-hour meeting.
	101.		Nothing would come of it.

	THE END. This is the end of the true bedtime story. These are by far the best excuses we've seen.

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Participating in Career Fairs

Attending a career fair is just one of many steps in the career exploration and job search process. Employers participate in these events to meet students and recruit employees. They can provide general information about career options as well as specific information about current openings. As a student or alumnus, you can attend a career fair to look for a job, gather career information, and/or develop your network of career contacts.

What to Learn From Employers

Employment and/or hiring trends.
Skills necessary for different careers/jobs.
Current/future openings.
Salary, benefits, training, and other information about the organization.
Who to contact for follow-up discussions.

What Employers May Want to Learn About You:

Specific career/job objectives.
Individual strengths and weaknesses.
Contributions you will make to the organization.

Make the Most of Your Career Fair Experience:

Have a pen/pencil and paper available for notes.
Bring resumes and a folder or a portfolio to hold your materials.
Review the list of employers. Determine where employers are located and in what order to visit them.
Broaden your focus and include many types of employers. For instance, you may not have considered working for a hospital, but hospitals recruit and hire professionals in many different fields (e.g., management, information systems, or health care).
Be aware of time demands on employers. Do not monopolize an employer's time. Ask specific questions and offer to follow up after the fair, as appropriate.
Be direct. Introduce yourself. If you are job seeking, state the type of position in which you are interested. If you are gathering information, let employers know that you are only interested in materials and information.
Ask for employers' business cards for follow-up discussions/correspondence.

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